NM, I'm kinda in the same boat as you...though my latest separation hasn't been as long as yours but I think after the next couple of outings with G4 I'm going to just chill out. With so much going on in my life and adjusting to taking care of everything myself now I really just have to focus on me. The only thing though is I do like to go out and do something fun sometimes and I don't have any single friends to do that with. That's the only positive for me right now hanging out with female friends.

Last edited by ImprovedRomeo; 07/29/10 09:03 PM.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again