Hey good advice there from brena. Soleil (and Brena) two quick things. One please don't have sex with them ESPECIALLY if there have been other women. You don't want to catch something, this is a very real issue- don't ignore it. Two, for Soleil, if he's saying all these things again do you trust him? or is there an ulterior motive behind all this? Maybe he does mean it...do you see a future/family together? but and I don't want you to get your hopes up high but it is possible that he does realize what he had and now it's gone. So don't let him cake eat, make him feel that if that's the road he chooses than there's no cute Soleil there for him anymore. The sooner and harder it hits him the better. Don't let him ease into his new 'lifestyle'.
As for marriage for me no. I only stand to lose by getting married unless of course it's a supermodel then all bets are off...ok so no. However, I already have D6 and she's all the family I need. I would love to have a gf though but we'll see if she would have the same idea or not. Most women want to get married.
Just because he failed to honor the committement to you doesn't mean the marriage is not for you.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again