I have written a draft of the note I want to send H, as he asked me what I thought of his SMS message... can't believe that I am airing this most private of messages on the internet but I did test things by typing some words into a Google search, but it doesn't seem to come up with anything from the Divorce Busting site's BB. Does anyone know if you can bring up stuff from here in a casual internet search?
Ellie, you sound a little similar to me in a way - I was rather more active in my twenties and early thirties, cycling and stuff, but a couple of years after the birth of D I started having chronic lower back problems, and that really affected so many areas of my life - made me inexplicably (to others) grumpy, less interested in you know what, less active at times etc. And my H actually RESENTED my bad back, in so many words, rather than show an ounce of sympathy or concern or love.
Amazingly, the last few days I have got out of bed in the morning ache and pain and stiffness free!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
