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Originally Posted By: DanF
but does too much for the kids a lot of times. She isn't teaching them any independence.


Good book: "Parenting with love and logic"

Concepts boil down to "Choices, consequences and empathy"

The concepts work well on waywards...


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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...Well, they got divorced anyway and 5 months later, after destroying their finances and him finding a new girlfriend, who moved in with him, his W came back and wanted to get back together....


Do you see how "Set them Free" worked for him......All of the sudden, he became attractive because she couldn't have him anymore......


ding-ding-ding - - - WINNER!

Doesn't sound like a familiar scinerio on how things play out at all to me. [sacrasm alert] crazy

Anytime you wanna talk over a beer and your buying, I have great ears and a little experience with all this.

EDIT- I meant beer(s) laugh


How to contact you? I'm buying!

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Originally Posted By: DanF


How to contact you? I'm buying!


Well, the misses usually has a hard time with the modern technoligy, ie-FB, but you you can find me on there, and as long as you're buying (better make it a payday laugh ), it should be A Wright. wink

-Dylan


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
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Well, the misses usually has a hard time with the modern technoligy-Dylan


Apparently I am too.

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WELL here's the plan:

gonna load kids up on bus, we are going to my work so i can use the phone in the morning.

i have to find out if i can file for legal sep or divorce with an impending court concilliation date in august.

if i have to wait till after that to file so be it, but if i do not have to wait the 60 days, me/kids will boogie on down to the court file either legal sep or divorce and attached will be temporary orders for child support, etc, that way i do not have to wait till the divorce case is over.

have h served and go from there.

i don't want to file but is enough - enough?

i feel like i should give the letter a shot, what does anyone think?


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july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
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Originally Posted By: DanF
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Well, the misses usually has a hard time with the modern technoligy-Dylan


Apparently I am too.


Are you schitting me?

I know I suck at typing really fast some times, but geesh, that is right out in the open. crazy


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M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
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apparently I suck at searching. I'll keep trying. Are you friends with any DeeBee's?

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Hey dday, did you ever have FRIED cheese curds?

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Hey dday, did you ever have FRIED cheese curds?


I'll fry dang near about anything, but there's just something very unappealing about the word "curds" in general. I love chicken wings, but avoid as best as possible the curds in bleau cheese. sick


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
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You guys are making me wish I lived further North. Of course, that would be one he'll of a GAL step. W, I'm driving to Chicago/Wisconsin this weekend. See you Sunday. Don't wait up.


ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
-Tom Highway


Me: 43
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S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs
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