she has long told me she was a serial monogamist and she did this poly thing so she wouldnt throw away a perfectly good relationship (me) for the new shiny.
go walk around the block a couple of times, look at the birds, stop and get a coke, smile at some passersby and then re-read that like an adult. your view of a committed relationship is skewed.
Well, she has long told me that the longer you are with someone the less fire there is in the relatoinship (love life). She is my partner, and sure enough I have seen this happen. So I dont know what to think, its a long standing problem between us...me desiring more of her then she can provide. I dont want you to think she is a complete jerk...she isnt...I certainly have my own foilbles here.
