Therepist and church counsel goes along way. She's emotionally and spiritially raping you.
Also workout and GAL, have fun and TREAT YOURSELF.
She's not concerned about you, only about holding you in this situation so she can do what she's doing.
I believe you are going to have to leave.
Perhaps before you leave you do some of the DB principles and attempt to MAKE HER WAKEUP.
Im not spiritual but I am seeing a therapist. I work out all the time and take good care of my health. I struggle with whether or not she cares. It was hurting her to see me in so much pain which is why she ultimately gave him up. But now she is so locked into her own depression that she isnt seeing the rest of the world. I dontknow.
