Cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys. Hugs to each and everyone of you (NB,OT,Wii,Donna,Gardener,kat,CG,NM,Sol) for your thoughtful comments, advice and understanding. You have no idea how good it feels to read and go 'you know you're so right and thank you for writing that!!' - don't worry wii you can hug too I'm really not gay despite the vibes I may give off I do like your idea because if G4 stays pushy I can just say 'well G4 the thing is stbxw left me because I'm gay...' lol

I still have to come up with a one liner to say to people so far I've been saying 'yeah w and i are not longer together, she decided to call it quits'

I haven't decided on the packing/moving dates but that's all I'm going to respond to her about. That's it. Just just a fleck of dust on my shoe- not worth my time right now (and I feel sad/guilty to even say this type of stuff because I loved her with all my heart).

Sol, NM, to answer your question about entitlement/Ls- legally she IS entitled to all this but if it were me I'd taken a different route saying 'I'm sorry I know you loved me and I loved you too but now things are different and I hope you can forgive me and move on in rebuilding your life. I wish you all the best for the old times sakes. And thank you for the alimony and child support checks because as much as I'd like to not have to need them but I do and I'm appreciative of your generosity.' I don't know something like that.

CG, thank you! do you have a thread of your own these days? I couldn't find one. Wanted to catch up on your H's contact yesterday.