Sorry for your sitch Jstar. I'm not sure what else to say.
Feeding like that has to be rough. We had to go to formula due to gas/stomach issues, but how long do you think you are going to have to do this? Will they never take a bottle?
You may just want to file and see if that makes any difference. A lot of times it is the fear of the loss that really motivates them, but given your H's behavior, I'm not sure that will be the case.
Good luck with your decision, whatever it may be...
