What helped me change the most was supporting others. My beliefs and thoughts became clear as I offered others advise...Then when I needed advise for my sitch I had everything I needed... You reap what you sow....Pass out what you want to receive...
As far as the kids are concerned, as long as you and MsDanF are frequently and equally involved in their lives, they will be fine. You are their role model and they are watching how you deal with this....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
