my first goal is to open the lines of communication again.
So how would you define this as "working" ?
What would communicating feel like to you?
What is your role in communicating with your H? (I prefer to use the word dialouging.)
How are you going to open the dialouge?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.