No one except for our parents (and my sisters) know that H is back at his parents... A) he makes it sound like he only went back to regain focus for his boards B) says he is coming back C) my mom thinks he is thoroughly confused and hates having to explain things to people and says its our business!

My one sister expressed that she is sad but happy H moved back home... only bc it would show him what D life is like, and so that i dont get used to him... although she said she wishes he would go to MC.

Funny: my mom sent H a text for his Bday yesterday, instead of calling him, said she wants him to see that my family will be different with him since we are not together... she thinks he needs to see that his entire will be different if we go down this path! hahaha You go mom!

She was however happy i made the cake and said i should be myself and let him see what he gave up and is missing out on!