Mommacat- I feel your pain. I am dealing with a year of lies, he has got caught in all of them and even if people think its wrong to snoop, im glad I did cause now i know the truth. I confront him on all of it, but how do i forgive him. This has been going on.. i say the worst of it from june 27th when i found everything out.. adn i mean everything. Pictures a go phone to make phonecalls, phone records. Thing is there hasnt been a physical relationship with any of them.. but the intentions and lying hurt me so bad.. I dont know honestly if i love him or if im in love with the idea of what i thought he was.I am newly married so you can see where that confusion is. Every day is a stuggle for me. Every day I dont know if i can look at him. I wish i had advice for you, i wish i could tell you that it will get better.. It will but i have no idea if it gets better with them or without. I wish you the most luck. Oh, and waht i found helped a little was watching Fireproof (if your religious). It is definately a motivator to help make things work. Good luck.
