On the brighter side - I had a dream about Bruce Willis last night. He was sitting with my H and I, and I was telling him how sorry I was about his marriage failing. He started getting teary-eyed. It was pretty clear he's waiting for Demi to wake up from this Ashton Kutcher fantasy!

Oh yeah - and now even Seabiscuit is screwed up for me - because unlike the movie, which implies Howard's first wife left him - the book makes it clear he was still married when he began his affair with the older sister of one of his son's wives! Imagine his poor LBS - first she loses a son to a tragic accident, then her H has his MLC and marries a younger woman who she had probably treated as FAMILY, and then gets famous so she has to read about H and OW in the papers all the time.

I must admit, this whole DB experience makes me realize how skewed our media coverage of divorce is.
Ellie