I don't know if it's fear of me being forever angry about it that she has a problem with, at least not right now. She just said she doesn't want this stuff in her life, she doesn't want anger and hostility. She wants to have fun. Right now she doesn't appear to put a whole lot of value on me or our M. Her attitude is like "If I feel good with H, and if we're having a good time, then great, let's hang out. If I have to slog through all this crap, forget it, I'd rather leave it behind and have fun with someone else."
Not exactly a good foundation to build a reconciliation on.
Puppy, I've read much of your story. There seems to be many similarities. After your W's A, you guys did well for a while, but she then "drifted away" again, restless and unhappy. She seemed incapable of understanding why she was so restless, and committing to your M. She wanted to go out with her friends and "have fun". You were suspecting another A, and it got pretty bad again. It got to the point where you finally agreed to end your M. It wasn't until then that she grabbed hold of you for dear life. Reading my story, do you see similarities?
