Okay. I have done just this. I have taken my responsiblity for agreeing to this. I did consent to trying this and when I realized I couldnt move forward with things pushed her and it to make changes. She sys she wants to be married to me and losing me would be just as horrible to her as losing him has been. She is willing to try monogamy again fully and she wants to keep things together for the family. But she also says she loves me. (You know that song, I love you iM not in love withyou).
No, No, No.
There is no try.
Either she commits to this for the rest of the marriage, forever, or it's over. She is playing you. She is saying inside her head, "I'll try this for awhile since I don't want to lose him, but when he feels good about us again and doesn't want to divorce, I can probably go back to doing what I did before."
Man, come on. There is no try here. You can "try" to work on a marriage or aspects of it like communication, time together, etc. But you don't "try" to work on your wedding vows. You just do them.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
