azrob - I have a difficult M. My H has retained a lawyer (not yet filed D). I'm doing everything I can to save my M as that is what I feel is right for my situation.
I read your story. Even though I am a huge proponent of staying married v. getting divorced, IMO you do not have a M. Tell her what you want. If she wants the same thing (doesn't sound like it), see a MC. If not, move on. You deserve more. Your children deserve more.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.
