Originally Posted By: Serenity13
A~

I wouldn't under normal circumstances say this but where are your balls? (Don't read this Puppy)

Originally Posted By: azrob
Having it rubbed in my face for a couple years sucked.


Of course it sucked however you allowed it to happen, where is your self-worth?

From the little bit you have posted, she doesn't love you without question...She loves you as long as you are willing to be the good little husband, to let her sleep with whomever she wants and to not say a word.

The correct terminology for that is "doormat".

Time to get you junk out of her purse and stand up for yourself...Set boundaries for YOU, not her.


Well, again, I have done that. I forced the end of the relationship. I told her I wouldnt be party to that anymore that it was destructive. Again, its not a question of self esteem and all that. Its a question of now that I have pushed him out, how to I hang in there until whatever BS she is going through now can pass.

I know my situation is crappy. I wouldnt be here if it was polyanna. Im hoping that you guys can give me some direction other then toss the bitch out. Which seems to be the cresendo here.