Do you have a male friend in real life you can go and explain this to?
Your wife isn't loyal, her actions prove otherwise.
You haven't had a real partnership in marriage, you are fooling yourself.
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I feel foolish and stupid to have trusted her.
Why will you trust her in the future? She doesn't seem to want to change.
Well I have no friends that I can trust with this level of crap frankly. The few friends I have told this to to a person have told me to dump her. That's really easy to say. But I have kids and a life and all the crap that comes with it. Trying to tease all those apart and knowing full well if that divorce comes I lose my kids (i have been on the wrong side of a divorce before and weekend visits are no life for them) is something I cannot in good conscience go through agian without trying everything possible to save this.
I came to this site because one of my friends recommended it and said he got some good advice here when he was going throughhis issues. SO I am being hopeful.