You failed to protect yourself, and now you feel abused because YOU ARE being abused.
You need to stand up for yourself, set boundaries and be prepared to enforce them by walking away and ending this mockery of a marriage if neccessary.
Time to grow a pair, IMHO.
Well, we had quite the brawl last nite. Where I essentially told her I was sick of the crap. And was promptly made to feel stupid because she can spin like the best of them. The thing is, she continues to say that she does not want to get divorced. That she is willing to honor her committment with me now and keep our family together. ANd if i could just shut the hell up about the rest of the marriage stuff that it would probably come back.
Im just struggling to believe that.
Again, this isnt about some macho man thing. This is me trying to solve this problem. And I am trying to step back and failing.
