OK, that's the crappiest advice I have ever heard :

1. There is NO WAY to be SURe.. sorry, no one has a crystal ball for marriage
2. Seven years she COULD be learning from but is CHOOSING to ignore and walk down this ridiculous path...

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More to teh point... I am starting to wonder now if your wife isn't just enjoying herself being provocative online here.. she may have alluded to cheating, but she may just be lying to excite him. There are a lot of women that enjoy being provocative on the phone or the internet but you get the in person and you realize they are ALL TALK ...

A lot of young girls are like that... they just enjoy playing the provocative tease... We are ASSUMING at the moment that her physical presense woudl match her internet persona and that has'nt been confirmed...

I am wondering that she may be all talk here..

I am NOT saying that she's not dangerous or seriously ill... Just want to put some breaks on here a bit...

We don't know how FAR she is willing to go in person... so lets not draw any serious conclusions yet...

SHe's spiraling downward and is seriously ill either way, AND dangerous to marriages at this point...