I can't understand how she doesn't understand the common sense, of as long as the other guy is there - she will never be able to do right by you.
Well yeah. I know that. I told her that from the start. That if this got too serious that I would be pushed out. That's human nature. She absolutely insists that she was doing "right by me" but is happiest when she has the freedom to be who she is. Im really stuck on this. I dont want her to be with me out of loyalty and commitment, that is no way to live. But she believes what she believes.
