Well he only has a girlfriend (her) and is NOT married.
But he SPECIFICALLY said to my wife that he isn't really interested in marrying her, even though she THINKS that is where it is going.
He is stringing her along and CHEATING on her with my wife.
Even if I lock the PC down, they can still talk on the phone and have phone sex. My best bet is to let them FB chat for a while and dig themselves an intel grave.
Man that is going to SUCK.
This is one of the rougher parts of infidelity QS when the spouse selects someone who is NOT particularly vulnerable...
Your first two you lucked out
a. First one was married b. Second one was in the military
BOTH were easy kills.. THIS guy is not going to be as easy to drive away...
Good God, Allen. When does he throw in the towel and just do a Robx (sorry, babe, this ain't working for me either.)?
I just follow QS' lead here
QS DID say this morning he could see his wife spiraling clearly now and he's not interested in repairing the marriage at this point... but QS may have changed his mind...
It's QS' call not mine... I assumed him talking about exposure meant he had changed his mind about giving up...
MY concern right now guys is that QS' wife is becomming an internet predator... First a married guy and now another guy who's involved iwht someone already...
Your wife QS is becoming every woman's nightmare... I can imagine tehre arne't just a few women on this forum who would love to take piece out of her...
MY concern right now guys is that QS' wife is becomming an internet predator... First a married guy and now another guy who's involved iwht someone already...
I hear you, but how long... if this is the course she is going to choose... before she winds up like Robert Blake's wife?
Some distance, it seems, might be a very good thing.
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But more to the point, this is ridiculously unhealthy... whoever heard of someone moving to a new guy SO DAMN FAST...
Well I said before that she was doing online searches for her coworker guy that she is moving in with. "How to get your roommate to date you" ect. She THEN starts talking with this NEW #4 guy and within 30 MINUTES she is telling him about her SEXUAL FANTASIES. This after 16 years of NOT TALKING.
She appears to be going for ANY AND EVERY sexual encounter that she can. She wants to date her coworker, but until she is SURE she will do #4 guy online and on the phone. Maybe when she starts dating coworker she will stop, but it is HIGHLY UNLIKELY. So she will cheat on him and get caught, and end up in a HORRIBLE living situation.
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I have never SEEN anything this ill... she must be hurting from teh divorce really bad... her support system must be CRAP QS
Dude, if you saw ALL MY INTEL you would be HORRIFIED. I only share what I can actually type in a REASONABLE amount of time.
She has developed NEW sexual fantasies that SHE NEVER EVER TOLD ME ABOUT. It kills me to think that she couldn't share them with me, but will with a guy she JUST reconnected with.
I am thinking that Puppy knows how this is. His wife was doing some guy and texting how good he was and all.
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Good God, Allen. When does he throw in the towel and just do a Robx (sorry, babe, this ain't working for me either.)?
I am actually keeping on top of this for a LOGISTICAL and TACTICAL advantage. It also helps me to STRENGTHEN my nerves and emotions, and DEAL with this HEAD ON. I suck it up and FACE IT DOWN LIKE A MAN.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
MY concern right now guys is that QS' wife is becomming an internet predator... First a married guy and now another guy who's involved iwht someone already...
I hear you, but how long... if this is the course she is going to choose... before she winds up like Tony Blake's wife?
Some distance, it seems, might be a very good thing.
An a$$ kicking, financial troubles, possible troubles with authorities would be enough to wake anyone up and re-consider the direction she's going.
We all know she is going the direction of "strongest feeling", "life passion", and with many supporters allowing her to build up momentum in that direction.
Thing is we have all done it before when we where younger, and you wake up when things get really really bad.
I really hope she takes the steps of pain required for her wakeup call and she brings herself back home.
My fear is she may already BE the OW for one of the posters here... we haven't connected all the dots yet...
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I am actually keeping on top of this for a LOGISTICAL and TACTICAL advantage. It also helps me to STRENGTHEN my nerves and emotions, and DEAL with this HEAD ON. I suck it up and FACE IT DOWN LIKE A MAN.
I am with you QS.. I did the same thing... A very wise and respectable position if you can muscle through it.
TO be perfectly honest if you CAN musle through it you will be amazed at how emotionally STRONG and in CONTROL you will feel at teh end of it...
She can do or say anything an dyou wont' even bat an eyelash...
Tough to get there, but worth it if you can do it... rise to the top of the kung fu pyramid so to speak.
I will warn you one thing though QS... women will say a lot of stuff on the PC that they may never do in person... There's a liberating quality to have to only type.. it makes being open a lot easier... It's VERY ADDICTIVE...
Your wife is getting high on being a predator now I think... Has she commetned on this guy's gf at all? Shown any remorse there?
I wonder if I should just go MAD - Mutually Assured Destruction. I may seem like a "psycho" in the end, but what the Hell do I have to lose? Just launch my whole arsenal of ordinance and level the entire galaxy.
Just print EVERYTHING out I can and take it to her parents and tell them she has a serious sexual addiction. She views REALLY GRAPHIC porn sites, sex chats with a few guys, is going to have phone sex and take nude pictures, she has pursued a MARRIED GUY, a guy that wanted to USE AND ABUSE HER, and now a guy with a GIRLFRIEND.
She is also LURING a younger guy into her apartment, while RIGHT NOW planning phone sex and whatever else with guy # 4.
Some of the fantasies she talks about aren't all that great. How many more guys is is going to take before she ends up maybe hurt, pregnant, or with an STD?
And in her chat last night she alluded to she was "unfaithful". And she TALKED about some "things" she liked to do, LIKE SHE HAS JUST DONE THEM RECENTLY AND ENJOYED THEM. So I USED to think the affairs were only ONLINE, but there MAY have been some PHYSICAL too.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
