Absolutely, major differences, for a reason. But not all on the MLC boards think exactly the same way, and as Grit pointed out ... taking the BS is not what's being prescribed.
Sounds good to me ... and ya never know, the fact that it's a man might help H open up ... good luck! Let us know how it goes ...
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc