PEI..about the generalizations..there seems to be a definite difference between how the MLC group and the Infidelity group handle these things..we've touched on that in my other thread. that's all I was saying. We all have our own individual theory about how we want to realate to things.
I did some calling around. I found a guy who is trained in Marital therapy. He was recommended by another marital therapist who doesn't take our insurance..and who was not solution based. This guy says he usually can get a couple on track within 3-4 sessions and has an average of 5-6 total. That's if he sees that both people are willing to try and haven't come in there already wanting out of the marriage. He is also experienced with MLC and knows that is a specific form of issue. he takes evening hours and seems very nice and laid back. All good things. I'm feeling good about him. He is going to call and check into our insc requirements.