It's so hard when deep down you know the truth yet your head allows you to think, "well, maybe, if there's enough time, etc."
That postcard would hurt anyone. I just got a glimpse of a guy helping STBXW in the yard and it sent me in a week-long spiral -- and he could just be a friend.
Five years from now you'll likely be with someone totally devoted to you and you'll wonder why you put up with his crap for so long.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6