gf of OM #4 may either kick teh guy out OR she might want to keep him and threaten yoru wife... the latter would be BETTER
Your wife having some woman show up at her home spraypainting the door with nasty words on it might wake your wife up a bit that she's becoming an internet predator...
Which she IS... She's chatting up engagd men now... I imagine there are not a few women on this forum who would like to have a "chat" with your wife...
You can also get some of the OM's going after each other. Theres alot you can do here.
Well they just started talking LAST NIGHT. But they are planning phone sex TONIGHT while she is in her hotel room,
And possibly she will take some naked pictures for him too.
This is all so new right now. But there has to be a way to nail this thing down BEFORE they get hot and heavy tonight.
OR I let them do their thing, which leaves a CALL AND TEXT HISTORY on his phone and bill. Then I message her and tell her to check his phone and bill to see whats going on.
Not the BEST option because then she will be playing with herself for him and I have to deal with that.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
You could contact him privately and tell him you are giong to expose to his wife ...
He may run like the married guy did... He may out you... that's a dice roll too...
I am wondering if you can do something to her PC remotly so it doens't work for that night... lock up all the ports except the one you need to get into the pc maybe...
You could contact him privately and tell him you are giong to expose to his wife ...
Well he only has a girlfriend (her) and is NOT married.
But he SPECIFICALLY said to my wife that he isn't really interested in marrying her, even though she THINKS that is where it is going.
He is stringing her along and CHEATING on her with my wife.
Even if I lock the PC down, they can still talk on the phone and have phone sex. My best bet is to let them FB chat for a while and dig themselves an intel grave.
Man that is going to SUCK.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
But more to the point, this is ridiculously unhealthy... whoever heard of someone moving to a new guy SO DAMN FAST...
I have never SEEN anything this ill... she must be hurting from teh divorce really bad... her support system must be CRAP QS
Let me ask you this QS... if you didn't find this forum do you think you would have went the route your wife is taking now? If your wife found this forum instead of these other guys frist do you think you two would be in a better place now?
I am just trying to meausre how much affect support systems are having on her "runaway bride" strategy here...
I don't think we threaten exposure, you just do it. You may get this OM going after some of the others before you blow him out of the water.
You havne't been paying attention to the posts on this thread today DLS...
QS wants to AVOID his wife knowing about his elaborate intel system.. if he does a full exposure it would OUT HIM in doing so... he doesnt' want that.. he's made that clear...