Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Originally Posted By: CD
So when she came around the old behaviours and motivations from the last long R eventually returned as conditioned bhvrs. I have to break that cycle.


Ahhh....the difference between moving on and moving forward.

We may be done with the past but the past isn't done with us.

CD I think you are heading in the right direction in your decision to work on yourself.

As you read, be careful not to focus too much on what you did with W.

It is important to see. It is the "WHAT" that happened.

The real questions are the "WHYs" and that takes mirror work.

Don't make changes for your W or your M.

Make changes for you. As Missher said find what stings in WHAT your W says.

Find WHAT you don't like in yourself.

Then.

Why you allow it to happen.

Then ...

Kill it.


AGREE! Where's that damned like button????

Last edited by PEImom_of_3; 07/29/10 05:08 PM.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc