1) The FIRST exposure I had the nude pictures and the test message logs. No surprise there
2) The SECOND exposure with the Facebook guy the moron texted me so I had OUTSIDE EVIDENCE other than my intel. I showed her the TEXT MESSAGE, and watched her body language for lies. I then TRAPPED her with her OWN WORDS. I did not reveal ANY INSIDE intel AL ALL THERE. I played some GOOD POKER and just let her talk herself into a corner. BOOOOOM.
3) The coworker guy I did not expose, but am putting together a "portfolio" of intel to use as a "tactical missile" should I need it.
4) OK, in her mind there is NO POSSIBLE WAY I could know about this new guy (#4). She is in a HOTEL 200 miles away with only her phone and laptop. If I do let on I know, she will then know I still have access to the phone logs, and potentially her Facebook dealings.
5) She doesn't know I know about her new apartment. If I tip this hand I am dead in the water because she will likely completely shut down and possibly do something REALLY drastic.
I don't care what SHE does, but ruining a poor girl's hopes for marriage and kids is NOT OK!!!! That girl has a RIGHT to know. But I need to weigh the cost of it.
Maybe when this girl finds out about all this and throws this guy # 4 to the curb, then my wife will SEE what SHE is DOING to people's lives.
Her parents know about this ( nude pics, sex chats ) and know you are a supportive and loving husband and its STILL OK?
