gf of OM #4 may either kick teh guy out OR she might want to keep him and threaten yoru wife... the latter would be BETTER

Your wife having some woman show up at her home spraypainting the door with nasty words on it might wake your wife up a bit that she's becoming an internet predator...

Which she IS... She's chatting up engagd men now... I imagine there are not a few women on this forum who would like to have a "chat" with your wife...