Originally Posted By: Taylor
I know you guys think us LBSers should hang in there and be patient and take all the BS, but I had had enough.


If that is what you got from what we have posted to you then you haven't been listening...

We told you to detach so you could get away from the bullsh!t.

Not sit there and take it.

Patience yes.

That is part of what is required because before you work on YOU you have to get yourself out of the way of the line of fire.

Perfect detachment is not only getting away from the bullsh!t but actually being able to hear or experience it

and it rolls off your back...in other words it doesn't effect you.

I (or anyone here) will not tell you what to do with your M. That is a personal decision.

Challenge you? yes. Based on our experience.

Our goal here is not to fix your M because that takes two people.

We know that the only one we can reach is the one posting here. Right?

Our goal is to help you deal with trauma of this unfortunate occurance in your life and

Help you heal and

Grow.

IMO, and this only based on my expereince, that starts with standing for your M.

For me that was standing up for what I believe in (Love and commitment to my M) and I wasn't going to let anyone make me compromise myself.

If I am going, I am going on my terms.

Not as a victim of bad behavior.

But that is me.

You can say this

Originally Posted By: Taylor
I have done work on myself


But I challenge you to read over the threads you have here.

Is that the changed person you want to be?

Are you done?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am