QS... your wife won't grow up that fast... you getting #4 to the curb won't change that...

Your wife is playing poker with YOU...

She wants you to THINK

a. She's over you
b. She isn't hurting at all
c. She isn't scared
d. She's got everything under control
e. She isn't looking for a serious commitment she's just crusin for fun

All of the above are LIES...

She's DEEP in wayward land right now and spiraling downward VERY FAST...

What will wake her up? HER getting cheated on, used, and lied to.. THAT will do SOME damage...

You exposing others as creeps? That's just going to bounce off of her right now... Ten years from now she will see it, but no way is that gonna wake her up on its own right now...

Keep a portfolio on the new #4 guy, you can expose him at any time the more he talks about his gf the more condemned he is...

I am wondering if thre's a way to let this gf of his know just abotu HIS end of this wtihout your wife's info being mentioend at all... that way OM #4 will think someone is squaling on HIM on HIS end... ?