Time for full disclosure.... I had a huge revelation last night while reading the infidelity section of DR. I now understand that my addiction to internet porn was central to my wife deciding it was over. That for her it was worse than an affair because she was competeing with a machine and losing. Not to mention the fact that I denied it when confronted.
Was this taking attention FROM her? Did you still attend to her needs, or did it really REPLACE her? My W was hurt in the same way, but I didn't feel I was neglecting HER needs in favor of this. I would rather have been with her, she just wasn't interested as often as I was.
I really hate to even talk about this subject, but it is a reality.