I am an occasional poster, so take this with a grain of salt....

The D was just filed last month, and you are already dating? What's the rush?
I understand wanting to be validated again after such a blow (been there, did that). OK, well, now you know that you aren't a troll - there will be opportunities for you.

This is a time for you to become comfortable with YOU - heal wounds, work on becoming the best person you can be. Focus on you, your baby, family, girlfriends, hobbies, etc.