Eric..thanks for the info. I'll see if I can find the 800 number and ask them for local counselors.
I'm going to be ok..and I hope my H will be too. Maybe he really isn't MLC, maybe he was WAS. Not sure at this point. Maybe a marriage counselor can determine that.
I read some of your post from another thread and wanted to wish you my best with your sitch also. You sound good and like you have definately done your homework. These types of situations are necessary for growth and I can see you're growing. Good for you. I hope your W will see that too.