I understand sweetie..you know what is best for you. I was only trying to point out what I saw.
I wish you and your H the best. Keep working sweetie...keep working.
In terms of a counselor - trying contacting the DB 1-800 # and see if they have some ideas.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans