Life would be so much better with fast-forward and rewind buttons. Hang in there. We're all rooting for you, and we all know how much it hurts. Pain goes away eventually, our minds won't let us stay in such a painful sitch too long.
Thanks guys...I am actually out of town for work for the next two days which helps. Couldn't have come at a better time
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
Well....I just got home to a half empty house. She took all of the decor, her clothes, kids clothes, etc. The furniture is all there though
nice
She also decided to tell the kids about the pending divorce and refused to allow me to be there when done so. It's probably a good thing becuase I cried like a baby after talking to them on the phone today
nice
My attorney knows all of this stuff. She is reeeeeaaaaaaaalllyyy eeeeevvviiiiilll
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
I don't know what to say. Actually that's not right. This is total BS! I'm glad your lawyer is a headhunter. I don't know what the proper db thing to do is, but for me it would be all out war. I mean F ing our lives all up is one thing, but putting the kids in that situation is bullshit.
I'm behind you whatever you do. Make sure you take the time to take care of yourself. Stick it ou til the end on here. You have friends who want to listen and quite frankly, you are going to need this outlet.
I'm praying for you bud.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs
I don't know what to say. Actually that's not right. This is total BS! I'm glad your lawyer is a headhunter. I don't know what the proper db thing to do is, but for me it would be all out war. I mean F ing our lives all up is one thing, but putting the kids in that situation is bullshit.
Seems pretty proper to me, Goodman.
Barkley, it's time to take whatever legal gloves you may have still had on, OFF. Country hardball.
Talking to the kids without you was just unconscionable, and while it will make great fodder in any potential settlement, it doesn't do your kids' hearts any good.
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling