Hi Ellie!

Add me to the list of folks you've helped...both on my thread and all over the bb!

Your vacation sounds great, although I tend to stress about all the planning and such...worry wart! Hope your D feels better soon.

So what are you doing with your hair? Somthing funky?

You know Ellie, just the other day CJ was talking RRSP's and just said "We'll have $XXXX by the time we retire".

I don't know that an elicited reassurance, or thought out response could have spoken more to my sense of security in this M.

I remember clearly when CJ and I became a "we"...I know some people hate this notion, but we ARE very similar in a variety of ways (interests, intellect, music, movies, politics etc)..

I remember the wonderful feeling of having a partner to the end. I caught a glimmer of that from his unconscious inclusion of me in that far distant future vision.

I think sometimes we look for the grand gestures and might miss the little signs that things are on track!

Have a wonderful holiday!!!

Shiny