This NEW guy lives out on the West coast and has a GIRLFRIEND. He SPECIFICALLY said in chats with my wife "he's not sure about her and if he wants to marry her".
Then he sex chatted with my wife, she gave him her phone number, and they texted. They are going to have phone sex tonight.
Doesn't she have a RIGHT to know they guy that supposedly "loves" her is stringing her along and CHEATING on her?
******Here is my MAIN concern. Since my wife is away, ANY exposure MAY VERY WELL blow my intel operation WIDE OPEN.
I mean just how would ANYONE know about this NEW guy?
Here is what I am thinking.
1) create an empty Facebook profile.
2) contact her with a message that says:
I have very solid information that your boyfriend is cheating on you. His phone number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. I believe you have a right to know what is going on, but I also must protect myself and my identity.
Should you wish to talk further, please message back this profile, and I can give you ANY information that you want, provided it does NOT compromise my identity.
I am so, so sorry that this is happening. I too have been through it, and you may very well be in shock right now and not believe it. But believe me, I simply would NOT contact you if I knew it to be otherwise.
I STRONGLY ask that you not react right now, nor CONFRONT him at this time. Doing so would make BOTH our situations MUCH worse.
Just ask yourself, how would I know his phone number, and then why would I contact you. Again, I am terribly sorry this is happening, but you do have a right to know.
3) Pray and pray that she does not go off the deep end and blow this open and confront him. Then HE AND MY WIFE know they are found out and can go underground.
NOW SHE IS MESSING WITH ANOTHER PERSONS RELATIONSHIP, AN INNOCENT GIRL WHO LOVES HER BASTARD BOYFRIEND
Any more suggestions? Does anyone think this is a HUGE gamble to take?
QuickSilver264,
I don't think she really cares. She's having fun. You may do what you say you are going to do, but perhaps if you have a text dialogue from the boyfriend saying he has a girlfriend and is just pretty much playing with your wife, you may ensure that she "accidentally" gets this message.
If you cause the exposure she may look at it as you trying to prevent her from having her fun. It sounds like she's going to do it anyway whether its him or someone else.
I'm interested in your sitch, and it is rather "explosive" at how quickly it has turned.
