Yes, definitely do whatever you can to protect yourself now. Do you have access to see how much money is in his accounts now in case he tries to give it to OW or hide it as soon as you file? I think that is one thing DB cannot acount for - stubborn selffish WAS's! You can DB your heart off to the T (as you did Awest), but some of these spouses are unchangeable. It's discouraging, but at least you can feel good to know that you did everything possible to try to save your M. But like the others are saying, definitely go completely dark. He does not deserve anything from you. If he wants to know something about S, he can ask, but don't even offer anything up. If it's an emergency, go to your family or friends. H won't be there for you anyways. And maybe others around here who are going thru the D too can offer advice on how to explain it to S to make the transistion as easy as possible. It's sounds like you have a busy weekend ahead, so enjoy it. Good luck!
(And Kalni - I'm here and I definitely hear you. The depression is real, but you're completely right that it cannot continue to be the "excuse" for his cheating ways. I think I'm finally getting stronger now tho! Awest's sitch is teaching me a lot about that.)
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
