i think first .. i need to decide which option is best for me/us right now. is it really 2a?
So deciding on a option helps you achieve .......... what?
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the numbers speak for themselves. you cannot argue the math.
Sure you can, don't be naive. The argument is not about the math (logic) it's about how he or you feels. Why do you like option 2A? (makes you feel better - less confrontational and might save money. I know mind-reading but I saw the shot and took it. ) If you want this over then it's easy but if you want to try to reconcile you need to be aware of feelings.
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i just want to speak from my point of view.
until you validate and understand his POV you will just keep the same old arguments looping. "seek first to understand then be understood."
So I'll ask again. What's your goal?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
) If you want this over then it's easy but if you want to try to reconcile you need to be aware of feelings. 
