cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

I don't know. This has been going on since February of 2009. He lived with OW and her husband for a month may 09, but OW's H was out of town most of the time. Last I heard H said he wouldn't ever stay there again...I don't know if it is because of OW's H knowing or not. OW's H is a college athletic trainer and is out of town a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if he is cheating on her as well.

So to answer the question...I don't know if he knows the extent this is going because when OW and my H go on a vacation or go out of town together for the past 17 months, it is when her H is gone as well.