ONE LAST THING..since she is reading my posts this gives me the opportunity to say..STOP harrassing me...I am not fighting over a man. If it is him that you want..go after him just leave me alone. I just want this to end. I am tired of it. It cant go on anymore. If you want to be together so badly then he's all yours. I dont make his decisions, he does. I dont control what he does nor do I have a desire to. So, this is my last post on here. I feel better now! AHHHHHH!