PDT,

I really do appreciate your insight, and I am sorry for all of the questions. I feel like a 15yr old asking my Dad all of the do's and don'ts before my first date.

Update....

After seeing the text, I realized that she sent it @ 7:20am, so that meant that she was probably working. So I took the opportunity to call the house and talk to my son. It was great conversation and it is amazing how a 6yr old can save a Dad's day. He was so excited about his first loose tooth!

But back to my real issues. I think that this "release them/let them go" think might be working. She just emailed me what she texted me. It at first was thinking it was only because she was asking for money, but she can log into our band and see the status, she already started spending it, so she has to know it was there. Again, I am trying to control my expectations....

Any thoughts/inputs, change of courses, ect...????

And again, I really do appreciate the help and support here. I have been reading through the Setting them Free and Should I tell Her to Move On posts....it all helps!

Last edited by GoG8trz; 07/29/10 02:24 PM. Reason: can't type!

Me:33
W: 31
M: 8
T: 13
S: 6
D: 8 months
The Bomb 7/22/10 "I can't do this anymore, I'm done"
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2048765&page=1