Positives are always good, don't be afraid of the negatives because that is where we truly learn about ourselves and our relationship. They will happen as that is all part of this process.
Lance, Wow, never thought about the negatives that way, I like that. I did "move the needle" on ME, with the last negative that I experienced and I did in fact learn from it. Maybe that particular "negative" was a positive.....HMMMM.
Wish that I could view all the negatives that way.....wishful thinking.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.