This is a really difficult time, Romeo. I remember going through the settlement process with wife and I was still living with her at the time. It's truly an emotional rollercoaster where the dips sure feel plentiful! Just stick to business, be polite and businesslike. Don't let the hurts of the past (and there are plenty of them) interfere with getting a fair and good settlement. Reactive emails etc just further an already tense and emotional time for you both. So, as OT already said "business, business, business". This may not be what we chose but it's what we got, right? Btw, I'd email her about the twins though...ah, WTH make it triplets!
