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it actually took me a good FIVE MONTHS before i came to a clear decision that i could live with and fight for


Me too...
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we first have to know what makes us happy, what brings us INNER joy before we can ever accept anything from anyone


And what is it?



Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.