The OW has been reading my posts so I will leave it at this... I have kicked him out multiple times. Last Wednesday I wrote a very honest letter and put his stuff outside. I left the house and went running with my son, when I came back he moved his stuff back in the house. He said it was over with her and he would stop seeing her. I believed him AS I always do because I really believe in him and I know he is a good person. I keep giving him chance after chance because he is my husband...But I want to thank you all for your advice and support and being just plain wonderful..this is not the first time she has read stuff that I posted..only this time I used a user name that NOT ONE PERSON I know would EVER know..I used NO NAMES and I used a fake email address..so it is BEYOND me how she would even find this out! Really...and then have the nerve to tell my H that I put all of this stuff about him on the internet..violated his privacy..baffling..because NO ONE I know WOULD EVER KNOW THIS IS OUT THERE.