"I agree, let us both reserve our requests for support for various expenses for the Ls to handle in our final financial settlement. This will keep things much tidier financially and emotionally.X date (one day) is fine for packing and moving."
You're only "an emotional punching bag for her," if you choose to become emotional.
Put away your RPGs, buddy. She's got the launcher; she's pushing all the buttons.
And dating (4?) in the midst of this turmoil? I'd suggest you spend some time alone healing first.
At the very least, read through the Be Careful You Don't Rebound Thread.
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
