I also had not read Holly's story thanks MHL. OBTW GAG, MHL may also be in the process of reconnecting with his wife.
GAG you are without a doubt starting to reconnect with your husband. That is great! The more you post your story, the more we can all learn from it. It gives everyone hope and inspiration to read about reconnection and rebuilding. Those things are allowed in MLC, just no expectations.
MHL is correct that this is truly a very long process. None of us like that idea, but it is very important to learn. Positives are always good, don't be afraid of the negatives because that is where we truly learn about ourselves and our relationship. They will happen as that is all part of this process.
Thanks for starting your thread. Hope you will keep us up to date.
