Setting boundaries is a totally different thing from reactiveness. You are still very enmeshed, very reactive, hostile, playing emotional games, etc...
This is merely business.
"STBXW, I'll check with my L on the insurance thing. If required to do so legally, I'll keep you on until the next qualifying event. As you suggest, we can sort out the fine points of the financial settlement with the Ls. Wednesday works for taking care of the photo stuff, next Saturday works for packing, and anytime the following weekend is fine for the movers. Please complete your packing/moving within this timeframe. Best, Romeo."
